Sometimes the proces of making a decision is equally or even more important than the actual decision. It’s the journey, not the destination.
A learning proces should be of great value, yet it is often portrayed as a dark period in life. Every proces teaches you. Even those who are unforeseen. They teach you the most beautiful things, if you allow it. If you’re not open to the beautiful side of the proces, you will deprive yourself from life. You will deprive yourself from growth. And ultimately from happiness. Don’t close your heart because you’re scared. You can’t shield your heart from the pain, unless you do the same with happiness. If you do so, you will become cold as ice. Rockhard. Incapable to give and receive love. Incapable to live. You’ll just survive.
No one should think so little of themselves.