These days I’m losing weight. Physically, but most importantly emotionally and mentally. Realising that in difficult times, those you love will seperate from those who decided to only be there for the good. Not the bad, never the bad. Just good times, happiness and when they in fact need a strong shoulder to cry on. But God forbid, they don’t agree or don’t understand personal and difficult decisions. A friend’s ‘job’ is not to constantly question your descisions concerning your happiness, but to support and trust your insight to make the best of your life.
A beautiful quote from Ms. Oprah Winfrey:
“We eat on the level of our vision. Giraffes eat from the top of the trees. A turtle’s view is from the ground. When you were built to be tall, you will endanger your position if you lower your perspective. You can not explain to a turtle a giraffe’s decision.”